EKSPEKTASI GENDER DALAM KENCAN PERTAMA DAN IMPLIKASINYA TERHADAP KEBERLANJUTAN HUBUNGAN PADA GENERASI Z

Abstrak

First dates play an important role for Generation Z in shaping first impressions and setting the direction of romantic relationships. Behind these experiences, gender expectations still shape how men and women behave and evaluate their partners. This study aims to describe how gender expectations emerge and are enacted by Generation Z during first dates, as well as to explore the factors considered when making decisions after the encounter. The study employs a qualitative method with a phenomenological approach. Data were collected through in-depth interviews with 12 Generation Z university students aged 19–24 at Universitas Negeri Semarang, consisting of six primary and six supporting male and female informants. Data analysis followed the interactive model proposed by Miles, Huberman, and Saldaña. The findings show that men tend to carry gender expectations directed toward themselves, such as taking initiative, being financially responsible, and managing the flow of the date. Women, on the other hand, expect men to create a sense of comfort, offer protection, show sensitivity to situations, and demonstrate respect. Decisions made after the first date are influenced by communication, financial conditions, partner attitudes, and the level of comfort experienced. Overall, the study highlights that for Generation Z, the first date serves as an initial moment to assess comfort and compatibility, where gender expectations guide how men and women act and interpret interactions from the very beginning of the encounter

Kata kunci

• Ekspektasi Gender
• First date
• Gender expectations
• Generation Z